Ralph Pisano
1955 - 2013
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Three months to the day and it’ll be 9 years since you’ve been taken from us. It’s harder this year for me, I guess it’s the holidays coming up. I miss the family dinners, I miss hearing your laugh. I wish the pain of losing you would go away. Talking about it with people doesn’t help, I grieve on my own. I wish you were here to meet my Fiancé Brian. You would’ve loved him. I graduated high school and I’m in college now, going for my RN. We have a beautiful apartment together in Falconer but I’m constantly on google searching up “houses for sale”, haha. I like to think I’m mature for only being 20. No babies yet and we don’t plan on it for a while, we want to buy a home and I want to finish college first before any little ones. I wish you were here. Every single day. I hope you see me, and I hope you’re reading this. Like I said, this year seems to be the hardest one yet and I’m not to sure why. I love you so much Papa. Keep looking after Grandma, she misses you so much.
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Barbara Boser-Gates posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 31, 2017
Dear dear Ralph...After not hearing from your brother last year on FB asking about you, and seeing your brothers obituary now today...I was heart broken to learn that you passed two years ago,my dear...I am so very sorry to learn that the world and especially me have lost you...I am warmed to know you have such a loving family and I am sorry for their loss also...I remember all our wonderful conversations in your parents kitchen with them; your dad was so eager to teach me the lost art of applying clown makeup and seeing your parents watching tv together when we'd come in...that cozy little green kitchen and the cups of tea we drank while you smoked those doggone cigarettes..after all the wonderful time we shared together, I never realized you were also an Artist ...You will ALWAYS be that AWESOME guy; so loveable,fun,adorable & caring ....I miss you my friend,much love....Barbie
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Sam Vanbuskirk posted a condolence
Monday, January 19, 2015
Papa, not a day goes by where I don't think about you. I miss you so much. I miss our long conversations that we would have. Life is so different without you. I wish I could just say goodbye to you one last time. Well many things are different now.. I'm sure you know that... Some people just aren't the same anymore. If you were here, I know things would be a whole lot different. Just figured I'd come by and write since I have written to you in a while. Love and miss you lots
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Vicki posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
My dear Ralphie... It's coming up on my wedding bud! How I wish you were gonna be there! I think about you all the time! I miss you all the time! Sam is in 7th grade and acts like she is going into collage.. But what else is knew with that! Brandon is in 6th and struggling! They both miss you very much! Words can't explain how the family has changed since you passed! Till next time bud.. I love and miss you
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Martha posted a condolence
Thursday, November 7, 2013
Hi Walphie,:P I just wanted to stop by to tell you Happy Birthday and to let you know that you are truly missed ALOT by everyone. I made you a promise and im trying really hard.As you see things are rough round here theres so many mixed emotions floating round here Its crazy but I know that they all need someone to be strong so im trying.I know you're here with us still but it isnt the same I miss your jokes and your personality. I didnt know you for very long but the time i did was some of the best times of my life.I love you and miss you dad. Later I will type you a little something from your Grandson when he gets outta school.Anthony is having a really hard time dealing with all of this still and i feel helpless.All the Grandkids are getting so big and theyre all doing well in school. They havent quite got the grasp of you being gone(well noone has really)Its taking some time I think all of us question How to help them get thru this, What do we do? Better yet how do we help them when everyone around is grieving ourselves? So many questions i wish i could ask you cause i know you would have an answer. I miss you SOOOOO much
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Nicole Childs posted a condolence
Thursday, November 7, 2013
I want to say Happy birthday to you! You would have been 58 years old today I love and miss you everyday.I cant believe yor gone its been almost nine moths and it still feels like yesterday that you were taken from us we all still feel much pain everyday that we wake up and realize your not here.Oh Ralphie i miss you so very i took so things for granted when you were here and im sorry for that I want you to know that you were my dad and I love you more than you ever realized by my actions i want to thank you for ALWAYS sticking by me even when you very easily washed your hands of me but you didnt you stuck right by my side and you have no idea how much that still means to me by this day i can on and on but im not going to i just want you to know that i love you and im thinking of you today on your the most amazing man that was ever brought into my life by your choice and I thank you for chooseing us to be your family we all love and miss you EVERYDAY Happy Birthday Buddy I <3 you!!!
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Samantha Vanbuskirk posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
I know I have not been on here in a long time to write but I feel it's time to write again. People say that as time goes on it is supposed to get easier but as time goes on it has not become easier. I miss you terribly and I wish you were here with us I would do anything to have more time with you but unfortunately I cannot do so or else I would!! Believe me!! I hope you are looking down on me and Brandon from upstairs and are proud of us <3 well bye for now <3 Love , Sam <3
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Nicki Childs posted a condolence
Sunday, May 12, 2013
I sit here and think about you everyday I think that if you were still here with us things would be diffrent but it is what it is I hope you are looking down on me and seeing how good im doing I will show everyone that I can do this because I have the best angel looking over my shoulder you I love you Ralph and miss you more than youll ever know <3
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Samantha VanBuskirk posted a condolence
Sunday, April 7, 2013
As I sit here and think of all the memories of us as a family, I really miss you and miss having you around to talk to...I wish people lived forever so other people do not have to have the pain of missing someone like I do... I have all your drawing things and your easil but I do not know how to put the easil up haha... Well I miss you.! We will all come together someday.! Love you so much and I miss you.! Love, Sam <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
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Nicki posted a condolence
Saturday, March 23, 2013
The only thing that makes this easy is that I know that you are still watching over us I love you Ralph more than you will ever know <3
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Samantha VanBuskirk posted a condolence
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Today, I really miss you because dinner with Grandma is going to be different without you there with us to lighten up everybody's day. Sometimes I think about calling you and talking to you and going to Framemasters with you or to run some erons with you but then I remember I can't... Well bye for now. :) Love you, Sammie <3
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Samantha VanBuskirk posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 12, 2013
Papa, We wish you were here with us today.. We miss you really bad and we know that you are in a better place now. We hope you are doing as well as we are right now. Grandma found a cat and he is really nice. :) I am glad she got that cat so he can keep her company.!! :) Well goodbye for now!! <3 Love always and forever, Sammie <3
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heebee44 posted a condolence
Thursday, March 7, 2013
To the Love of my Life; I did my VERY BEST to take care of you, and I hope you know that. When you got put on the stronger meds that had to be administered in the hospital. Dr. Munir came right to Vick and I and said we could NOT take care of you. But I know how strong our love was, because you told me everytime I was there-along with kissing me!! Our love was so strong, everyone has told me you talked to them about me. I will always and forever keep you in my heart, because a piece of it is gone-you took it with you! I will get it back when I come to be there and PLEASE WAIT FOR ME LIKE YOU SAID YOU WOULD!! All my love forever & ever; until we meet again my darling-heebeeXOXOXO
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heebee posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Hi baby, I'm like Vick-I wrote a while back but it seems like it's hitting me more now then things did then. I tried at the time to hold it together for everyone else,and partly shock. Now, its my turn! Vick is helping me a lot, and Brandon spent 2 nites with me to keep me company. Now, I'm pretty lonely;Adam-12 comes on I yell out to you, "Baby, it's on" then I remember you're not here to watch it with me. I think of Easter and my birthday coming up and I can't imagine them without you!!! Vick called your phone to talk to you the other night like she does without even thinking-it broke her heart. We all talk to you every day. Vick and Bryan and Vick set a wedding day; July 19, 2014-be sure u are there for her. She's going to ask Marty if his health is so he can, if he will do the father-daughter dance that she would have done with you! Please show me signs that you are here with me here-please; in anyway u like! You have no idea how much I love and miss you. Please wish my mom happy birthday tomorrow, the 27th, for me. I will close for now, from now I will write in my journal-its a journal I bought one just for you and I so people don't think I'm not taking meds!! LOL I love you my darling with my whole heart and soul. You are my soulmate and will be forever; please never forget that. Yours forever & ever heebee XOXOXO
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Vicki posted a condolence
Friday, February 22, 2013
I know I was the first to light a candle.. however I had to come back on here. Ralph, it has been a week now and I love and miss you more than ever. Everyday, I take the kids to school and would call you and chat with ya, and now i just sit here and stare at the picture you did of the kids! I know I will get through this, however you were truely 1 of the most important men in my life! i love and miss you so much i could scream. Plz stay with me forever, because I feel you around but its far enough away, where I cant reach out and touch you! I love you very much and miss you!
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Barb Fargiorgio posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Ralph was always so upbeat and friendly everytime I saw him...
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Dan McHenry posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Dear Ralph
As children we were truly blessed and carefree. Knowing the comfort that comes from being surrounded by laughter and joy of love and family. One day at a store we looked up at the man behind the counter that towered us. Being little more than toddlers he chuckled as you claimed; “he’s my nephew”. As we got older life got real. But with life, challenges and troubles are part of the deal. Through it you clung to an unceasing curiosity. Never accepting anything at face value. You were driven to see what lies beneath--everything. This served you in your passion for knowledge, science, math, most notably your art. I know the secret of your drawings. You worked from a place of seeing what lies beneath each subject; the bones, the skeleton, the facial expression and the life. The result of this vision were portraits with faces so breathtakingly realistic and true they leave everyone who sees them in wonder. When I see them I am grateful to say “He’s my Uncle”.
You’ve left a mark anyone would be proud of. I pray you’ve found the peace you sought in life.
Good bye Uncle Ralph.
Your nephew Dan.
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Jamie &Tanya posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
R.i.p. Ralph.. you will be missed by many..Our thoughts and prayers are with you Helen, Nikki,and the rest of the family
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Kim Gajkowski posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Ralph, So I glad I had the pleasure of meeting you a while back. You were a great person. I was blown away by your paintings,there are amazing. Two weeks ago, I am so glad I stopped over to see you, you knew your days were numbered and yet you still made jokes. May you rest in peace and someday (not soon)I will see you again.May all the memories keep your family smiling and give them strenght.Love Kim Marie
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Steve & Sara Cummings posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Victoria, and your entire family. May he rest in peace.
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Dawn and Carl posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
You were a very special and wonderful person. I will think of you every time I look at the beautiful drawing of Andrew. We will miss you terribly....
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sue oehlbeck posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Helen, so sorry to hear about your love one. May he rest in peace.
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Katie Watts posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Sorry NOT Marsha.....MARTHA.......my auto correct!!! :0(
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Katie Watts posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
RIP Ralph....you are in paradise now and you can watch over your loved ones at all times. May GOD bless your entire family thru this hard time for them. Special prayers from me to Vick Nick Marsha and most importantly Miss Helen.
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Vinnie Marra Sr. posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Was like a cousin to me all through high school.. You are with your mom & dad now Ralph..
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Anna Ortega posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Ralph may you be at peace now. I had the pleasure of meeting you and Helen more than 10 years ago and I have always admired how an awesome artist you are.You are a wonderful person, my prayers and thoughts are with all your loved ones, you will be missed but never for gotten.
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Bryan Cummings posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Ralph, you could always crack a joke and get us all to laugh. You were a great man and I am so glad to have got to know you. You are and will always be greatly missed.
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John Stutzman posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
My heart aches for you and your family during this time. Ralph was a remarkable person and his absence will be missed by all whoever had the pleasure of knowing him.
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Chuck,Brenda & Danielle Ferraro posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Although we did not know Ralph for a very long time we feel as though we knew him a lifetime. He is a good man and we always enjoyed his company. His life here will always live on in the hearts of those who were blessed to know him. We will miss him.
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Ione Karnes posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
May the Goddess hold you in her arms and bring you peace.
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Sheila Sanders posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Praying for you and your family. Sorry for your loss Samantha and Vicky!
Dr. Sheila
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Charlie posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Hey Ralph rip buddy! Living in the same building with you for almost nine years you and Helen are like family to me. I am glad I had a chance to stop by and say good bye to you the other day. Even though I know you are in a better place you will be missed greatly!
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Alyssa Carpenter posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
R.I.P Ralph you were a great man and will b missed by everyone who's lives you touched!<3
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Patty Muntz posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
God speed Ralph. May the heavens reine for you and your loved ones. I still proudly display the portrait of Princess Di that was given to me by Vicki Vanbuskirk, drawn by you. You will be so missed.
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Heidi posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
You have impacted so many lives Ralph, and all who have known you will carry your heart and goodness with them forever.
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Kim posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
We love you Ralph and we will miss you deeply.
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Brandon VanBuskirk posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
I miss you Papa....
Love you
Brandon
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Samantha VanBuskirk posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Papa Ralph, You were a such a great man. I miss you so much and I love you. I hope you can see me and Brandon be successful and see us do what we want to do and that you will be happy with our decisions... Everyone loved you and still do! You will be missed by everyone!!! <3 Love,your grandaughter Samantha <3
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Raymond VanBuskirk posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
You will be missed by all Ralph....
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Denice Leamer posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
You were an amazing man and will be missed by many. May you rest in Peace now.
Love Rocky, Denice and Carly
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Alicia Burch posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Ralph, I didn't know you personally, but through Vicki's posts I believe I was able to get an idea of the man that you were. From what I could gather, you were a pretty remarkable man. I lost my Aunt and Grandma the last two months of last year so I know the struggles and heartbreak your family is dealing with. They should know that they will find comfort in the little things that happen each day that will bring a smile to their face thinking about you. The times that you will come to them in their dreams, just letting them know that you are ok. The people on the street that they will see that look just like you, just another way of letting them know that you are still watching over them. Rest in peace Ralph, and if you run into my Aunt Alice or Grandma Tootie....tell them I say hello!!!
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Gloria Jean posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Dear Ralph.....You will be missed by everyone who knew you. You took such good care of my sister Helen and her girls...and then their families. Helen calls you her "SOUL MATE". May you rest in Peace.
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Nicole Childs posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
I dont even know where to begin.... I cant believe the time has come for me to say goodbye.I know deep down that your are in a better place but it so hard to even imagine that your not with us anymore I planned on many more years together with you and the rest of the family I want you to know that I love you more than i could tell you!You were the most amazing man in my life from the age of 7 till 29 there isnt one other person I would have chosen to be in my life I also want you to know that you have nothing to worry about up there because we will have the best angel looking down on us and that is you! We as a family will make it thru this tuff time not one day will go by where I wont think of you I love you ALWAYS & FOREVER
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martha childs posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
OOOh where do i start im such lil time weve made so many memories. You and Helen accepted me and my son into the family with open arms.... I made you a promise to take care of your lil girl and now im maken you a promise to keep my promise.. I love you and know that you are in a better place but its still hard for me to accept. Thank you for bein such a great father inlaw and Papa to me and Antony. My parents have been gone for years and i never thought after so many years i would be given the gift of havin mom or dad again but God gave me you and Helen and im so thankful...
I love and miss you terribly
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shannon posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Ralph was a nice and kind and friendly man.he will be missed by all.may he rest in piece.
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Theresa R. posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Ralph, you were a bright light in my life and you will forever be loved and missed. Your talent was exceptional! Thank you for sharing it with those around you. Be at peace, friend.
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Helen posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
My Darling; I love you more than you could possibly know!! You brought SO MUCH joy to my life-and those are the memories that I will FOREVER have!!! You fought so extremely hard for the big kids, little kids, and I to fight this awful thing-but we hated you in pain. So by the Grace of God, you were taken home to be with the family; and you no longer are suffering the horrific disease baby. What will keep me going until we see each other again, are the memories we have; esp. my DREAM vacation to Nashville!! And, the kids and grandbabies-they will take great care of me honey...until we see each other again. And remember your promise to me; which you've never broken one-you will wait for me!!! Give my love to everyone. Love, Heebee XOXOXO
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Angel-Mary posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Ralph may you be at peace now, you were an awesome artist and a wonderful person, my prayers and thoughts are with all your loved ones, you will be missed greatly!
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Nicole (rivera) Young posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Coming to see you with Vicki and nicki. Having thanksgiving dinner with all of u guys. You were a wonderful man. May you rest in peace. You will be greatly missed but never forgotten.
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Vicki posted a condolence
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Ralph..my dear Ralph... I love you! One day has gone and you are so very missed! I am so proud to have had you in our life for so long!! love and miss you terrible! love always and forever Vicki
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